


If you are thinking that I’m going to tell you how to have the perfect outfit just in case the paparazzi is waiting for you at your front door—well this isn’t about that. It isn’t about how you can be flirtatious and coy and mysterious.
It isn’t about how much jewellery you wear—or how to make your hair more beautiful. No this article isn’t about that. You might be asking yourself—“I thought she was going to tell me how to be diva?” Well, I am, but not the prima donna type of diva—not the spoiled type of divas that we see on t.v.—and that everyone hates, but rather, I’m going to tell you how to be a real diva. A diva of grace. A diva of beauty. A diva that is the REAL you.
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According to Wikipedia the word diva is a term used to “describe woman of outstanding talent in the world of opera. It is derived from the Italian noun diva, a female deity and is distantly related to the Hindu term deva and the Zoroastrian concept of the daevas.” If the word diva comes from the word ‘deity’—which means God, Godlike, Divine, Goddess etc.—then let’s get back to the true meaning of the word diva. So here are the steps to being a REAL D.I.V.A.
In our modern day society, some of us have lost this magical connection to a Higher Consciousness and we feel loss. As an intuitive soul coach, I will facilitate a safe place for you to face your hungry ghost, and use your fear/anger to propel you to let go of the circumstances that are keeping you stuck so you can be a real D.I.V.A.
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The DARE 2B A D.I.V.A.™ program is the mind, body and spirit program. As a client you will work through the program on a one-on-one basis or in group format. There are five steps to the program—it will take a woman through the process of truly embracing her authentic self as she re–discover the true meaning of the word diva. The five steps are:
Step 1.
A diva Dares to want something more from her life. She will not settle for mediocrity, for herself, her family, her community or the world. She will face the challenges that are in her life head on—not feeling pitiful—but feeling powerful and will go through life with her head held high - knowing that she will dare – to be her great self.
Step 2.
A diva connects to her Divine. We are spiritual beings in a physical body—and it is only when we make a powerful and authentic connection to a Higher Consciousness are we truly able to deal and let go of what is holding us back in this physical world. In Mark Epstein’s book, Thoughts without a Thinker - it is summarized that to deal with our hungry ghost (what keeps us stuck) - we must turn to “spiritual nourishment” as “food and drink will not satisfy (our) unfulfilled needs in this (physical) realm.” (pg. 30)
How will the diva satisfy this need? By, by believing in something greater than her self. A diva is not afraid to lift her hands up in the air and give her God/Godesses her praise. Mary Mary, the gospel group captures this feeling accurately in their song ‘Thankful’ when they sing:
The next time you go to sleep
And you wake up alright
Remeber that he kept you safe
And warm all through the night
Lift your hands and lift them high
And this is what you say
Lord you didn’t have to give me
One more day...
Knowing that a Higher Consciousness is in her life will help her to realize she isn’t alone. She will feel Protected. She will feel unconditionally Loved.
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Step 3.
A diva is guided by her Divine to be a positive Inspiration to her self and to others. She does this by following her Intuition. Intuition is your direct connection to your Higher Consciousness (God). It is truth. It is powerful. It’s your guiding light—your soul compass. And once you have the courage and commitment to believe in your intuition, it will never fail you.
Step 4.
You’ve Dared. You are Divinely guided. You’re Inspired and connected to your Intuition . The next step to becoming a real diva is to create your authentic life Vision. It’s time to do some soul excavation work and dig deep to discover the real you.
As you excavate any limiting beliefs the authentic woman that lies buried inside of you will be come forth. This step can be the most challenging—but the most rewarding. As a licensed specialist, I can offer a specific set of exclusive tools that can help you to change your mind so you can change your life. This intensive ROADMAP™ is from the Live a New Life Story™ wellness program and it will help you uncover your hungry ghost.
As you allow the power and grace of the Divine Power to carry you through, you will triumph through this step. Your test will become your testimony. You are now living your Authentic Life Vision.
“This program was, what I needed to live my great life. I’ve tried a lot of self help programs - but the diva program, was practical and it got to the root of my problem. It got me to look at myself in a real way - and that was how I truly began to be the real me. I would highly recommend this to anyone who is searching for something more.” Patrica B., Kingston, ON - Canada
Step 5.
Here comes the last step. Now we all have Attitude, but is it positive or negative? Everyday, you choose how you’ll react or act in situation—negatively or positively. I’m not saying you need to become fake, and pretend you are happy when you are not. But you are in control of your thoughts and actions and you can choose choose how to express yourself in the world.
This is were you live life! Do you want to take a belly–dancing class? Go and take it. Want to learn how to paint? What’s stopping you? Worried about your body image? Wear a girdle.
You cannot be pitiful and powerful at the same time! They are in–congruent emotions. If you want a powerful life, let go of feeling sorry for yourself. A positive attitude can change a negative into a positive. A positive attitude can take you from scarcity thinking to abundant thinking. A positive attitude can heal the soul. A posiitve attitude propels you into your authentic self.
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A healed soul can heal a community. A healed community can heal a country. Healed Countries equal a healed World. This is the power of living your life with a positive attitude. So being a diva will take some work, but I can tell you, it is so worth it!
As you take steps to get in touch with a Divine Source—then follow the INTUITIVE guidance from your Divine—you will begin to create and live your authentic life VISION with a positive ATTITUDE. This is how you become a real D.I.V.A.
To reap the benefits of DARE 2B A D.I.V.A.™, the first step is to book an intuitive consultation with Ophelia today!
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